Your 30-day plan
Thirty sessions. One a day. Then you close the app.
The first 2 days are open to read now. Unlocking the plan gives you every session, the private journal, progress tracking, and your final report.
Reset
Days 1–7Reduce unnecessary triggers, establish healthy boundaries, and restore basic routine.
- Day 15 min
Create Breathing Room
The first days after a breakup are not the time for big conclusions. Your nervous system is doing a lot of work, and clarity rarely arrives on demand. Today is about lowering the volume so you can hear yourself think.
- Day 27 min
Decide Your Contact Boundary
A boundary is not a punishment for the other person. It is a decision about what you can handle right now, and it works best when it is specific rather than vague.
- Day 3Locked
Reduce the Feed
Checking someone's profile keeps a wound open with small repeated touches. This is about your at…
- Day 4Locked
Anchor Your Mornings
Routine is not trivial. When a shared life ends, the day loses its shape, and shapelessness ampl…
- Day 5Locked
Sleep and the Night Hours
Nights are harder because there is less to hold your attention. That is a predictable pattern, n…
- Day 6Locked
Name the Loss Honestly
Breakups involve several losses at once: the person, the routine, the imagined future, and somet…
- Day 7Locked
Close the First Week
You've reduced triggers, set a boundary, and started restoring structure. That is the whole job……
Understand
Days 8–14Reflect on the relationship constructively without assigning simplistic blame.
- Day 8Locked
Stop Idealizing the Relationship
Memory is not neutral. Under stress it tends to keep the warmth and quietly edit out the frictio…
- Day 9Locked
What You Needed and Didn't Get
Naming an unmet need is more useful than naming a villain. Needs are specific and portable — you…
- Day 10Locked
What You Brought to It
This is not about blame. It's about the parts of the dynamic that were yours, because those are……
- Day 11Locked
The Questions Without Answers
Some questions will never be answered, and waiting for an explanation hands your recovery to som…
- Day 12Locked
Triggers and What They Actually Are
A trigger is a cue, not a message. Music, places, and dates carry association, not meaning about…
- Day 13Locked
Patterns Across Relationships
Looking across your history — not to judge yourself, but to spot repetition — often reveals more…
- Day 14Locked
Close the Understanding Phase
Understanding is not the same as resolution. The aim is a workable account of what happened, not…
Rebuild
Days 15–21Rebuild routine, friendships, interests, goals, confidence, and direction.
- Day 15Locked
Reclaim One Interest
Shared lives absorb interests. Some of what you set aside was never actually about them.……
- Day 16Locked
Reach Out to One Person
Isolation is comfortable and expensive. One real conversation does more than a week of scrolling…
- Day 17Locked
Your Body and the Basics
Recovery is partly physical. Sleep, movement, and food are unglamorous levers that genuinely cha…
- Day 18Locked
Rebuild Your Space
Environment holds memory. Small changes to your space change the cues you encounter daily.……
- Day 19Locked
Confidence Through Evidence
Confidence rarely returns through affirmation. It returns through evidence — small, repeated thi…
- Day 20Locked
One Goal Worth Having
A goal gives the next few weeks a direction that has nothing to do with anyone else.……
- Day 21Locked
Close the Rebuild Phase
You've been adding rather than only subtracting. That shift — from managing loss to building som…
Move Forward
Days 22–30Develop healthier future standards, boundaries, communication habits, personal goals, and readiness for what comes next.
- Day 22Locked
Your Standards, Written Down
Standards are clearer when they're written before you need them, rather than negotiated in the m…
- Day 23Locked
Boundaries That Hold
A boundary you can't maintain isn't a boundary. Realistic and small beats ambitious and abandone…
- Day 24Locked
How You Want to Communicate
Much of relationship difficulty is communication under pressure. It is learnable, and practising…
- Day 25Locked
If They Contact You
Deciding in advance means you respond from your plan rather than from the moment.……
- Day 26Locked
Reconciliation, Considered Clearly
Reconciliation is neither the goal nor the failure state of this program. It is a decision that……
- Day 27Locked
Your Life, Independently Described
Describing your life without reference to a relationship is a useful test of where you actually……
- Day 28Locked
Readiness, Honestly Assessed
Readiness for dating isn't a date on a calendar. It's a set of signs — and there's no obligation…
- Day 29Locked
What You're Taking With You
The useful parts of this experience are the ones you can name and carry forward.……
- Day 30Locked
Rebuilt
Thirty days doesn't finish anything. It gives you a foundation, a set of habits, and a clearer a…