Your 30-day plan

Thirty sessions. One a day. Then you close the app.

The first 2 days are open to read now. Unlocking the plan gives you every session, the private journal, progress tracking, and your final report.

Reset

Days 1–7

Reduce unnecessary triggers, establish healthy boundaries, and restore basic routine.

  • Day 1

    Create Breathing Room

    The first days after a breakup are not the time for big conclusions. Your nervous system is doing a lot of work, and clarity rarely arrives on demand. Today is about lowering the volume so you can hear yourself think.

    5 min
  • Day 2

    Decide Your Contact Boundary

    A boundary is not a punishment for the other person. It is a decision about what you can handle right now, and it works best when it is specific rather than vague.

    7 min
  • Day 3

    Reduce the Feed

    Checking someone's profile keeps a wound open with small repeated touches. This is about your at…

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  • Day 4

    Anchor Your Mornings

    Routine is not trivial. When a shared life ends, the day loses its shape, and shapelessness ampl…

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  • Day 5

    Sleep and the Night Hours

    Nights are harder because there is less to hold your attention. That is a predictable pattern, n…

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  • Day 6

    Name the Loss Honestly

    Breakups involve several losses at once: the person, the routine, the imagined future, and somet…

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  • Day 7

    Close the First Week

    You've reduced triggers, set a boundary, and started restoring structure. That is the whole job……

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Understand

Days 8–14

Reflect on the relationship constructively without assigning simplistic blame.

  • Day 8

    Stop Idealizing the Relationship

    Memory is not neutral. Under stress it tends to keep the warmth and quietly edit out the frictio…

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  • Day 9

    What You Needed and Didn't Get

    Naming an unmet need is more useful than naming a villain. Needs are specific and portable — you…

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  • Day 10

    What You Brought to It

    This is not about blame. It's about the parts of the dynamic that were yours, because those are……

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  • Day 11

    The Questions Without Answers

    Some questions will never be answered, and waiting for an explanation hands your recovery to som…

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  • Day 12

    Triggers and What They Actually Are

    A trigger is a cue, not a message. Music, places, and dates carry association, not meaning about…

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  • Day 13

    Patterns Across Relationships

    Looking across your history — not to judge yourself, but to spot repetition — often reveals more…

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  • Day 14

    Close the Understanding Phase

    Understanding is not the same as resolution. The aim is a workable account of what happened, not…

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Rebuild

Days 15–21

Rebuild routine, friendships, interests, goals, confidence, and direction.

  • Day 15

    Reclaim One Interest

    Shared lives absorb interests. Some of what you set aside was never actually about them.……

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  • Day 16

    Reach Out to One Person

    Isolation is comfortable and expensive. One real conversation does more than a week of scrolling…

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  • Day 17

    Your Body and the Basics

    Recovery is partly physical. Sleep, movement, and food are unglamorous levers that genuinely cha…

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  • Day 18

    Rebuild Your Space

    Environment holds memory. Small changes to your space change the cues you encounter daily.……

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  • Day 19

    Confidence Through Evidence

    Confidence rarely returns through affirmation. It returns through evidence — small, repeated thi…

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  • Day 20

    One Goal Worth Having

    A goal gives the next few weeks a direction that has nothing to do with anyone else.……

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  • Day 21

    Close the Rebuild Phase

    You've been adding rather than only subtracting. That shift — from managing loss to building som…

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Move Forward

Days 22–30

Develop healthier future standards, boundaries, communication habits, personal goals, and readiness for what comes next.

  • Day 22

    Your Standards, Written Down

    Standards are clearer when they're written before you need them, rather than negotiated in the m…

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  • Day 23

    Boundaries That Hold

    A boundary you can't maintain isn't a boundary. Realistic and small beats ambitious and abandone…

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  • Day 24

    How You Want to Communicate

    Much of relationship difficulty is communication under pressure. It is learnable, and practising…

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  • Day 25

    If They Contact You

    Deciding in advance means you respond from your plan rather than from the moment.……

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  • Day 26

    Reconciliation, Considered Clearly

    Reconciliation is neither the goal nor the failure state of this program. It is a decision that……

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  • Day 27

    Your Life, Independently Described

    Describing your life without reference to a relationship is a useful test of where you actually……

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  • Day 28

    Readiness, Honestly Assessed

    Readiness for dating isn't a date on a calendar. It's a set of signs — and there's no obligation…

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  • Day 29

    What You're Taking With You

    The useful parts of this experience are the ones you can name and carry forward.……

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  • Day 30

    Rebuilt

    Thirty days doesn't finish anything. It gives you a foundation, a set of habits, and a clearer a…

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